Claire Holt, a Vámpírnaplók és a H2O sztárja az Instagramon tudatta rajongóival, hogy váratlanul elvetélt.
A színésznő szerint a terhességgel végig minden a legnagyobb rendben volt, nagy örömmel készültek a baba fogadására, amikor kiderült, hogy nincs szívhang. A megosztott fotó tíz nappal ezelőtt készült, amikor épp a műtétre várakozott a sztár. Először nem akarta megosztani tragédiáját a világgal, végül azonban úgy döntött, ezzel sokat segíthet azoknak a nőknek, akik éltek már át vetélést és halvaszülést. A képpel azt üzeni miden sorstársának, hogy megérti őket, és ne féljenek: lesznek még nagyon boldogok is!
I took this photo 10 days ago, as I waited for surgery after my sweet little baby lost its heartbeat. I sent it to my fiancé in the waiting room to show him that I was ok. I wasn’t. I’ve never felt more broken in my life. I debated sharing this so soon and I’m still frightened about making such a private struggle public, but I’m doing it anyway because it’s important. After my D & C, I spent hours on the internet searching for women who had been through it. I was desperate to find someone, anyone, who could relate to what I was feeling. Someone to tell me that the depression and hopelessness were normal. That it wasn’t my fault. That I wasn’t broken forever. I found a community of women who shared my exact experience. Who were open and vulnerable about miscarriage, something that isn’t often or openly discussed. It breaks my heart to think that losing a baby feels like something we have to keep to ourselves. Why is it any different than the death of a loved one? How is it any less meaningful? Here is what I have learned as I begin to crawl out of the dark hole: support is everything. I could not have survived this without the unconditional love of my partner. Despite his pain, he was my rock and my safety net. I will never know how to thank him. I also found that opening up to people is crucial. As soon as I told my story, almost everyone I spoke to told me theirs – their own, their wife’s, their sister’s. So many people go through it and understand the breadth of pain, yet so few people talk about it. Finally, I want to share a blog post that resonated with every part of me. You can find the link in my bio, @leandramcohen of @manrepeller articulates the emotional rollercoaster with an eloquence that I could never possess. To anyone out there who has been through a miscarriage, I understand you. I share every bit of your pain and you are not alone. Please be kind to yourself and I hope that you will be comfortable sharing your story too.
Claire Holt (@claireholt) által megosztott bejegyzés, Márc 4., 2018, időpont: 3:52 (PST időzóna szerint)
Claire párrja, Andrew Joblin decemberben döntötték el, hogy idén összeházasodnak.
